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Saturday, 17 October 2009

  • And in late-breaking news...

    After Bruce and I had been chatting for quite a while tonight - after he got home from work at 9:15 - I said, "I'm gonna check on Ruth - she looked really pale when I was in there to turn out the light."

    Bruce hadn't seen her since 7:30 this morning, so we both went to check on Ruth, and she woke up enough to lean on Daddy and say hi, and start falling straight back to sleep.  He was in an awkward position for her, so after a couple of minutes she shifted around, and sort of coughed, so I asked if she was thirsty, and she nodded, eyes still closed.  I handed her the sippy cup and she turned so she could lie back on the pillow to drink.  When she handed the cup back to me, she reported in a very sleepy, yet factual tone, pointing to her right nostril:

    "It feels like there is chunks in this nose.  So I was twisting my finger in it.  All the time."  *Sleep*

Thursday, 15 October 2009

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    The Prefect (Ace Science Fiction)
    By Alastair Reynolds
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    My husband, the substitute teacher.

    Bruce taught his first day of getting paid teaching - he subbed right down the street from us, and rode his bike.  On our way home from picking up Paul from his school, we drove along the front of the other school where kids were getting out, and there was Bruce doing yard duty!  We honked and waved.  I made that man an apple pie to celebrate.  And he'll get to eat it as soon as he gets home from his other job - poor guy.  In between his jobs, he talked to me and said that the teaching was really easy, and the people in the office were very nice.  What a great way to start out!

    I'm so grateful that we have insurance, and that Bruce is willing to work two jobs to make that happen while we wait for a full-time job of teaching (that will include benefits).

    Paul was sick two weeks ago and pulled through nicely without needing to go to the doctor's office, but Ruth got sick this week and I took her in.  She had a nagging, low grade "elevated temp."  Some doctors think you can't call it a fever if it's not over 100.  Whatever. 

    Yesterday I went ahead and kept her home from school, because she'd been awake for quite a while in the night, and even in the morning said that her head hurt.  This morning she woke up all chipper, with 98.6 degrees.  I thought, "Yes, she's going to school, Paul's going to school, Bruce is going to work:  I'll have the morning to myself to run errands at whatever pace I like, without slowing down for the buckling and unbuckling of car seats, or with, if I so choose, the leisurely dawdling down a drugstore aisle without having to watch a child that wants to pick up and touch and wander off to find something more interesting."  But then Ruth said her throat hurt, and her head still hurt sometimes.

    Hmm.  So I called the doctor's office to make an appointment and be sure that Ruth didn't have some kind of throat infection, and they were able to fit us in at 1 with the nurse practitioner (who was simply charming with Ruth).  We had the morning ahead of us, and since she seemed to be so chipper, we went ahead and ran errands - paid rent, took books to the library (some of which were due yesterday - but Ruth was sicker then), and went to the drugstore and the grocery store.  By the end of that, she looked a little grim - kind of glassy-eyed and the whites of her eyes were a little pink, and she was flushed.  Her forehead was hot.  So I was really glad I had scheduled an appointment.

    When we got there, her temperature was 99.5 or so - really not hot, and she was pretty mellow again - could sleeping for the last ten minutes of the car ride have helped?  Mmmmcould be.  (She fell asleep later when we were taking Paul to soccer practice too.  I made a point of getting her to bed earlier tonight.)

    The NP said that her throat did show signs of post-nasal drip, so that was probably the cause of the sore throat.  She did ask about the ongoing headache - confirming that there was no nausea or throwing up, no change in behavior, or walking strangely, or anything else that could suggest ominous reasons behind a headache.  Just thinking about that creeps me out.

    So we treat the symptoms - and the NP said that chicken noodle soup (if Ruth liked that) would feel good on her throat, so we went and bought Dora noodle soup, and I'd guess Ruth ate about half or more of a pretty full bowl, so that was encouraging.   Tonight I gave her some Tylenol and some cough and cold stuff to help dry up the dripping while she's sleeping.

    In completely other news, we are making progress in escrow.  We'll be glad to be shut of the house.  Well, Bruce and I will be glad.  Paul and Ruth still miss it.  They have only ever known that house. 

    But another reason to be glad to leave that house came up the other day when we got our power bill and could look at how much electricity and how much gas we used in the Bakersfield house (that we're not even in!) and how much here, in the duplex that we are actually living in.  We used less here.  How weird is that?

    Well, Bruce is due home soon, so I'll sign off.

     

Thursday, 08 October 2009

  • "Thank You" and "You're Welcome."

    Today at Costco, standing in line, I noticed an older lady in a line over from us, stooping over and using her card to scoop together coins that had fallen on the cement.  She was working at it long enough for me to notice and think, "Somebody should help her.  Hmm.  Maybe Paul could help her." 

    So I told Paul, "Paul, you see that lady trying to pick up her money?  Go help her pick it up.  Yeah, go help her."

    So he went over and knelt down to get the last few ones that were giving her grief, and she held open the change purse part of her wallet for him to put them in, and then he stood up and started walking back to us.  He was a few steps away before he realized that she was calling him back, and she handed him a coin.  He stood very straight and said, "Thank you."  When he was back to us, I told him, "Hey, I could tell that you said thank you to her.  Good job.  It was really nice of her to give you that coin."  He answered, full of pleasure, "I said, 'Thank you,' and 'You're welcome.'"

    As we walked out, she was finishing in her line too, and gave Paul a special smile and thanked him again. 

    It was a moment to warm a mother's heart.

Sunday, 04 October 2009

  • seeds

    The radish sprouts are up, and the carrots managed to start coming up over the weekend without my help (I was at a women's retreat with some great, great ladies).  Yay for growing things. 

    And yay for a chance to think about seeds and think about a quote I heard several times this weekend about sowing your pain and frustration and disappointment and suffering in God, and not in yourself, and letting him bring his own crop of joy and peace from that.  I'm still chewing on it.  How do you sow into God?

Thursday, 01 October 2009

  • Currently
    The Well of Lost Plots (Thursday Next Series)
    By Jasper Fforde
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    Paul and Ruth stories: I went with the flow, and Secret Identity

    The other day I was picking Paul up from school, and it was just Paul and I in the car.

    He said, "I was chasing girls, and they were scared of me, because they thought I was a second grader, so I just went with the flow that I was a second grader, and I didn't confess that I was really in first grade, and so they were scared!"  Then he went on to say that they had said he could bust down an iron door, but, he reflected, with a certain sort of pensive amusement, "I tried to break down a door and I couldn't really do it."  More thoughtfulness:  "I didn't confess that either yet.  But I will.  Someday."



    In other Paul news, Paul had homework that was a connect-the-dot with numbers up to like 60 or something, with a Bible theme - the dots made a camel, and the question underneath was something like, "Jacob sent his servant on a _ _ _ _ _ to find a wife for Isaac."  So Paul finished the picture, and I showed him where there was a spot for a five letter word.  He chewed the end of his pencil, and then carefully sounded out, Q, U, E, S, T.  Yup, that's what he went on all right.  I'm not about to stand in the way of that.



    This morning at the table it was just Ruth and I, while Paul was getting dressed.  Ruth told me that she needed warm clothes because it was cold.  She reported, "Seth had Super Warm Skin, and he said that he did, and Mrs. Brenda believed him, but I don't think he does.  I think he's tricking me." She squinted one eye in a suspicious grimace:  "I'll have to keep an eye on him."  She went on to make plans for keeping an eye on Seth.

    "I'll have to make a secret identity."

    "I'll need wood, hammer, nails, and paint."

    I asked her what she thought a secret identity was like, and she said it was something she was going to make, "a Super-O-Matic thing to dig in the ground, and dig to Seth's house and see him, and," she added gleefully, "it would have eyes on the back of its head to see boys following."



    I forgot to write about an earlier time when Bruce was lying on the couch and Ruth was mothering him.  She pulled a blanket up over his shoulders and said, "Time for bed, dear...tuck you up.  Don't worry...just feel fine."



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